All about the B-Day. 8-Feb-2018

Hi guys!!! 

This is one of those very exciting posts.

No need to guess,  I’ll spill it

 Well it’s my Birthday “belated” post….so please allow me gloat ๐Ÿ˜‚.

 It should be clear by now how well I love birthdays and how excited I get on the week of my birthday…

Scratch that, I mean the whole of February is an exciting month for me.

So let’s use the excuse of being overly excited that’s why this post is coming late.  Kapish?  Lol
I had a very exciting birthday week… It was all sunshine for me. ๐ŸŒ…๐ŸŒ…๐ŸŒ…๐ŸŒž๐ŸŒž๐ŸŒž๐ŸŒž.

The whole “Carnival” Started two weeks to my birthday ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ where I had my birthday shoot “haven’t had that in years“.. 

Oh my God, it was the awesomesttttttttt… esttttttttttesttttttttttttttt shoot.. E. V. E. R. (I’ll have a post specifically about my birthday shoot.) relazzzzzz๐Ÿ˜‚

I worked with an amazing team,  My Gosh
From the styling,  hair,  photography,  makeup …everything. 
So about the D-Day. 

Birthday celebration started a bit late.. Talk about “fashionably late” ๐Ÿ’…๐Ÿ˜ฌ. 

I truly have the weirdest grin on my face right now thinking about it. And No,  it wasn’t intentional, but who’s checking? ๐Ÿ˜‚

Birthday Girl!!! 
Had the best humans around me,  so much to eat and drink.  love, laughter and hugs and all the simple things in life.

Its amazing to see how many people will show up when you say there’s free food and cake. ๐Ÿ˜‚.

(I know a few friends that will kill me after reading this post) 

That’s me being silly.๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ 

I’ll rephrase

  It’s amazing how many people will show up just to show you love on a day like that. It’s humbling. 

Here’s a little video I put together.  And a little bits and pieces from the day.

Wish I could call every name.. But you know your “lovely” selves. 

I am Super Grateful ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™.

Thankful for amazing people.

Well,  Happy Viewing! 

The most beautiful birthday cake ๐ŸŽ‚ … 

Dripping chocolate by my darling Nikky Cake studio.. I didn’t get to eat my cake *sad face*

Inhale the love… Exhale gratitude… 

My face was this way throughout the night. Lol

Cake makes me smile.. Lol

So yeah,  I had all the fun in the world… And I’m even more driven than before. 

So I made a random video…

So I finally made this post. 

Well,  from this end, 


Still me,  Bhotchocolate โค๐Ÿ’“

The best way to pay for a lovely moment is to enjoy it. 

~ Richard Bach


11. A photo of me today.

Hey guys!!!

Its day 11 of this challenge…. 

15th April 2017.
So heres a picture of me today…it was a random, no makeup, easter food shopping morning. 

I kinda like the picture. And *in beyonces voice* i woke up like this ๐Ÿ˜‡๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

Well, its going to be a crazy day tomorrow… But nobody can stop this raggae๐Ÿ˜†๐Ÿ˜†

Tomorrow Yall


“The two most powerful warriors are patience and time”

~ Leo Tolstoy

Personality Profile : Kelly Rowland ๐Ÿฆ„โœจ๐ŸŒž

Birth name : Kelendria Trene Rowland

Birth date: February 11 1981 ( she’s Aquariusโ™’๏ธ like me๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—๐Ÿค—)

Talent : singer ๐ŸŽ™,songwriter๐Ÿ’ป๐ŸŽถ,actress๐ŸŽž๐Ÿ“ฝ๐Ÿ“ธ, tv personality๐Ÿ“บ.
Kelly is well known for her sultry sexy looks, she always oozes of sexiness and taste,never over the top, and her soft makeup. Her smooth dark skin is flawlessly flawless.

 I just love how much she loves to change her looks, her hair game is always popping (from her red shor hair back then wi h Destinys child, to her long tresses now). But It’s safe to say that her signature look is the bangs. To me, she always going to be the “sexiest” Destinys Child group member. Always serving black girl magic๐Ÿ˜.
Here are some of my favorite Kelly Rowland hairstyles 

And here are some of our favorite overall looks


Well, isn’t she always gorgeous?

To bring out your inner Kelly, you’ll need: 

1) Your skin well primed

2) Stiletto

3) Nude lips

4) Sexy dress



Hotchocolate โค๏ธ

“Dipped in chocolate, bronzed in elegance, enameled with grace, toasted with beauty. My lord, sheโ€™s a black woman.โ€ โ€“Yosef A.A. Ben-Jochannan

Credit : Pinterest, Wikipedia,


Quotes : Outfit

Crazy stuff๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚, this is soooo me!!!
My inner weirdo always finds her way out…

No matter how well I try to mask it. Lol



Hotchocolate โค๏ธ


SCARFS : Different ways to rock your scarf.

Hi lovelies,
I just love how well turbans and scarfs are used to beautify and emphasize an already beautiful look, or even change the entire picture of the outfit. Girls are not playing.*snap*

While preparing to go to church two weeks ago, I needed to complete my “ankara look” by actually tying the scarf, very unlike me, my scarf is always in my bag or left at home. I felt so good and looked like a “complete” outfit , after that “epiphany”๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜•๐Ÿ˜•I decided I was going to add scarves to my outfits henceforth (and not so much as just on my head๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚).

I particularly love how scarves are paired as turban to finish up a complete English look, that is Savage๐Ÿ“ธ and always noteworthy in my books. In my opinion, adding a scarf is the best way to easily make an outfit chic without the whole “trying too hard to accessorize” feel.

Try your scarf :

1) As a headtie/turban: This is what comes to mind when you first hear the words “scarf”, the ultimate save a ‘bad hair day’, “we are all tempted to try it” look. But to pull this off, you should have your hands on ways to tie your turban. Here are some looks to try.


2) On the neck: Up until my research for this post, I didn’t even know there were these many ways to tie a scarf in the neck. Feed your eyes.

And here are some outfits with this method 

Can’t wait to try this last look.

3) As a belt : This method is quite fashionable, but it takes a certain level of fashion forward thinking to pull this off.



4) Layering/ Under the belt: Love this.


There are a lot more ways to include scarfs in your everyday look,



Feel free to share your scarf styles 


Hotchocolate โค๏ธ

“Money doesn’t buy elegance. You can take an inexpensive sheath, add a pretty scarf, gray shoes, and a wonderful bag, and it will always be elegant” ~ Carolina Herrera 

Credit: Pinterest 


For the love of Cornrows.

Hello darlings.

Yea, it’s been forever!!! And boy have I missed you guys.

Today’s post is somewhat familiar with all of us, what triggered my writing was the saying about the Kardashian sisters bringing back the Cornrows.(I won’t want us to debate this totally untrue saying but oh well!)

Cornrows have been around from way back when, and never went is every girls go-to style when the ponytail is out of reach ๐Ÿ˜‚.

Well, here are a few favorite cornrows looks. 

Relax and enjoy!!!



In the heat of this weather, wouldn’t you rather go with a simple look?


Bhotchocolate โค๏ธ

“Loving oneself isn’t hard, when you understand who and what ‘yourself’ is. It has nothing to do with the shape of your face, the size of your eyes, the length of your hair or the quality of your clothes. It’s so beyond all of those things and it’s what gives life to everything about you. Your own self is such a treasure” ~ Phylicia Rashad

Credit: Google 


Bra Size Explained

Hi darlings,

its been a while….I know… it has been real crazy on this end of the world ๐Ÿ˜‰ … I always decide to be consistent(I need prayers…lol) ill try.

There’s nothing as annoying as an ill fitting underwear, or even the wrong underwear for a look, it doesn’t take a lot to KNOW your bra sizes, please ladies, study and shop right. iย kinda stumbled on these and I thought to share.



Hotchocolate โค

A woman’s perfume tells more about her than her handwriting.
โ€• Christian Dior


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