Male vs Female buttons

Hey lovelies, 

Ever wondered why the buttons on the male shirts were places on the right and that of the ladies were placed on the left… I bet some of you didn’t even know that. 

I have always wondered why… 

During my research too it is said that the same feat applies to zippers (Ie, male on the right,  female on the left)  I’ll take note from now. πŸ˜‹

It’s true that there internet is a wealth of knowledge but… 

This one proved to me that the internet is a round about too… There were theories that just didn’t even add up to me.
After much research (and being forced to watch cat videos and YouTube links 😏) I finally chose the answer that seemed more realistic and reasonable.

Historians say,  in ancient times,  clothing held weaponry, it was easier for men to slip their hands in and pull out their guns hidden in the shirt with the dominant hand without it being caught in.

It also applies to swords,  gentlemen wore their swords on the left so it could be drawn from the right hand. And if a jacket buttoned  was on the right.. It wouldn’t be a smooth sail to get the sword. 
(I don’t believe I’m writing medieval) oh well!
As for the women,  when buttons were invented. The woman wearing the shirt wasn’t necessarily the person buttoning it… Buttoned clothes was for the wealthy.
Wealthy women back then didn’t dress themselves.
That means the maids had to button it… And it’s more convenient for  the buttons to be on the left when someone had to button it.

Understandable enough?  I took this for my answer probably cos I was tired of research. Lol
Men’s shirts have buttons on the right, women’s on the left. 


Youre welcome 



Toodles

Bhotchocolate πŸ’œ

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All about the B-Day. 8-Feb-2018

Hi guys!!! 

This is one of those very exciting posts.

No need to guess,  I’ll spill it

 Well it’s my Birthday “belated” post….so please allow me gloat πŸ˜‚.

 It should be clear by now how well I love birthdays and how excited I get on the week of my birthday…

Scratch that, I mean the whole of February is an exciting month for me.

So let’s use the excuse of being overly excited that’s why this post is coming late.  Kapish?  Lol
I had a very exciting birthday week… It was all sunshine for me. πŸŒ…πŸŒ…πŸŒ…πŸŒžπŸŒžπŸŒžπŸŒž.

The whole “Carnival” Started two weeks to my birthday πŸ€—πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ where I had my birthday shoot “haven’t had that in years“.. 

Oh my God, it was the awesomesttttttttt… esttttttttttesttttttttttttttt shoot.. E. V. E. R. (I’ll have a post specifically about my birthday shoot.) relazzzzzzπŸ˜‚

I worked with an amazing team,  My Gosh
From the styling,  hair,  photography,  makeup …everything. 
So about the D-Day. 

Birthday celebration started a bit late.. Talk about “fashionably late” πŸ’…πŸ˜¬. 

I truly have the weirdest grin on my face right now thinking about it. And No,  it wasn’t intentional, but who’s checking? πŸ˜‚

Birthday Girl!!! 
Had the best humans around me,  so much to eat and drink.  love, laughter and hugs and all the simple things in life.

Its amazing to see how many people will show up when you say there’s free food and cake. πŸ˜‚.

(I know a few friends that will kill me after reading this post) 


That’s me being silly.πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ 

I’ll rephrase

  It’s amazing how many people will show up just to show you love on a day like that. It’s humbling. 

Here’s a little video I put together.  And a little bits and pieces from the day.

Wish I could call every name.. But you know your “lovely” selves. 

I am Super Grateful πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™.

Thankful for amazing people.

Well,  Happy Viewing! 

The most beautiful birthday cake πŸŽ‚ … 

Dripping chocolate by my darling Nikky Cake studio.. I didn’t get to eat my cake *sad face*

Inhale the love… Exhale gratitude… 

My face was this way throughout the night. Lol

Cake makes me smile.. Lol

So yeah,  I had all the fun in the world… And I’m even more driven than before. 

So I made a random video…

So I finally made this post. 

Well,  from this end, 

Toodles

Still me,  Bhotchocolate β€πŸ’“

The best way to pay for a lovely moment is to enjoy it. 

~ Richard Bach

11. A photo of me today.


Hey guys!!!

Its day 11 of this challenge…. 

15th April 2017.
So heres a picture of me today…it was a random, no makeup, easter food shopping morning. 


I kinda like the picture. And *in beyonces voice* i woke up like this πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‚πŸ˜πŸ˜

Well, its going to be a crazy day tomorrow… But nobody can stop this raggaeπŸ˜†πŸ˜†

Tomorrow Yall

Toodles

Bhotchocolateβ™₯
“The two most powerful warriors are patience and time”

~ Leo Tolstoy

Personality Profile : Kelly Rowland πŸ¦„βœ¨πŸŒž

Birth name : Kelendria Trene Rowland

Birth date: February 11 1981 ( she’s Aquarius♒️ like meπŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—)

Talent : singer πŸŽ™,songwriterπŸ’»πŸŽΆ,actressπŸŽžπŸ“½πŸ“Έ, tv personalityπŸ“Ί.
Kelly is well known for her sultry sexy looks, she always oozes of sexiness and taste,never over the top, and her soft makeup. Her smooth dark skin is flawlessly flawless.

 I just love how much she loves to change her looks, her hair game is always popping (from her red shor hair back then wi h Destinys child, to her long tresses now). But It’s safe to say that her signature look is the bangs. To me, she always going to be the “sexiest” Destinys Child group member. Always serving black girl magic😍.
Here are some of my favorite Kelly Rowland hairstyles 

   
    
    
    
   
And here are some of our favorite overall looks
   
    
    
    
    
  
    
    
  

    
 

Well, isn’t she always gorgeous?



To bring out your inner Kelly, you’ll need: 

1) Your skin well primed

2) Stiletto

3) Nude lips

4) Sexy dress

   
    
   

Toodles

Hotchocolate ❀️

“Dipped in chocolate, bronzed in elegance, enameled with grace, toasted with beauty. My lord, she’s a black woman.” –Yosef A.A. Ben-Jochannan

Credit : Pinterest, Wikipedia, kellyrowland.com

SCARFS : Different ways to rock your scarf.

Hi lovelies,
I just love how well turbans and scarfs are used to beautify and emphasize an already beautiful look, or even change the entire picture of the outfit. Girls are not playing.*snap*

While preparing to go to church two weeks ago, I needed to complete my “ankara look” by actually tying the scarf, very unlike me, my scarf is always in my bag or left at home. I felt so good and looked like a “complete” outfit , after that “epiphany”πŸ˜•πŸ˜•πŸ˜•I decided I was going to add scarves to my outfits henceforth (and not so much as just on my headπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚).

I particularly love how scarves are paired as turban to finish up a complete English look, that is SavageπŸ“Έ and always noteworthy in my books. In my opinion, adding a scarf is the best way to easily make an outfit chic without the whole “trying too hard to accessorize” feel.

Try your scarf :

1) As a headtie/turban: This is what comes to mind when you first hear the words “scarf”, the ultimate save a ‘bad hair day’, “we are all tempted to try it” look. But to pull this off, you should have your hands on ways to tie your turban. Here are some looks to try.

   
    
    
 

2) On the neck: Up until my research for this post, I didn’t even know there were these many ways to tie a scarf in the neck. Feed your eyes.

   
    
 
And here are some outfits with this method 

    
 
Can’t wait to try this last look.

3) As a belt : This method is quite fashionable, but it takes a certain level of fashion forward thinking to pull this off.

   
   

 

4) Layering/ Under the belt: Love this.

   
   

There are a lot more ways to include scarfs in your everyday look,

   

  

Feel free to share your scarf styles 

Toodles

Hotchocolate ❀️

“Money doesn’t buy elegance. You can take an inexpensive sheath, add a pretty scarf, gray shoes, and a wonderful bag, and it will always be elegant” ~ Carolina Herrera 

Credit: Pinterest 

For the love of Cornrows.

Hello darlings.

Yea, it’s been forever!!! And boy have I missed you guys.

Today’s post is somewhat familiar with all of us, what triggered my writing was the saying about the Kardashian sisters bringing back the Cornrows.(I won’t want us to debate this totally untrue saying but oh well!)

Cornrows have been around from way back when, and never went anywhere.it is every girls go-to style when the ponytail is out of reach πŸ˜‚.

Well, here are a few favorite cornrows looks. 

Relax and enjoy!!!

   
    
    
    

   
    
    
   

In the heat of this weather, wouldn’t you rather go with a simple look?

Toodles

Bhotchocolate ❀️

“Loving oneself isn’t hard, when you understand who and what ‘yourself’ is. It has nothing to do with the shape of your face, the size of your eyes, the length of your hair or the quality of your clothes. It’s so beyond all of those things and it’s what gives life to everything about you. Your own self is such a treasure” ~ Phylicia Rashad

Credit: Google