All about the B-Day. 8-Feb-2018

Hi guys!!! 

This is one of those very exciting posts.

No need to guess,  I’ll spill it

 Well it’s my Birthday “belated” post….so please allow me gloat πŸ˜‚.

 It should be clear by now how well I love birthdays and how excited I get on the week of my birthday…

Scratch that, I mean the whole of February is an exciting month for me.

So let’s use the excuse of being overly excited that’s why this post is coming late.  Kapish?  Lol
I had a very exciting birthday week… It was all sunshine for me. πŸŒ…πŸŒ…πŸŒ…πŸŒžπŸŒžπŸŒžπŸŒž.

The whole “Carnival” Started two weeks to my birthday πŸ€—πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ where I had my birthday shoot “haven’t had that in years“.. 

Oh my God, it was the awesomesttttttttt… esttttttttttesttttttttttttttt shoot.. E. V. E. R. (I’ll have a post specifically about my birthday shoot.) relazzzzzzπŸ˜‚

I worked with an amazing team,  My Gosh
From the styling,  hair,  photography,  makeup …everything. 
So about the D-Day. 

Birthday celebration started a bit late.. Talk about “fashionably late” πŸ’…πŸ˜¬. 

I truly have the weirdest grin on my face right now thinking about it. And No,  it wasn’t intentional, but who’s checking? πŸ˜‚

Birthday Girl!!! 
Had the best humans around me,  so much to eat and drink.  love, laughter and hugs and all the simple things in life.

Its amazing to see how many people will show up when you say there’s free food and cake. πŸ˜‚.

(I know a few friends that will kill me after reading this post) 

That’s me being silly.πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ 

I’ll rephrase

  It’s amazing how many people will show up just to show you love on a day like that. It’s humbling. 

Here’s a little video I put together.  And a little bits and pieces from the day.

Wish I could call every name.. But you know your “lovely” selves. 

I am Super Grateful πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™.

Thankful for amazing people.

Well,  Happy Viewing! 

The most beautiful birthday cake πŸŽ‚ … 

Dripping chocolate by my darling Nikky Cake studio.. I didn’t get to eat my cake *sad face*

Inhale the love… Exhale gratitude… 

My face was this way throughout the night. Lol

Cake makes me smile.. Lol

So yeah,  I had all the fun in the world… And I’m even more driven than before. 

So I made a random video…

So I finally made this post. 

Well,  from this end, 


Still me,  Bhotchocolate β€πŸ’“

The best way to pay for a lovely moment is to enjoy it. 

~ Richard Bach


International Women’s Day.Β 

Hey Ladies, 

it’s March 8, so we are all for our day.
The day dedicated to every woman.  So we will soak it all in… Unapologetically.πŸ˜‚

Happy international Women’s Day to all you strong, unappreciated,  dedicated women. 

Stay Strong,  stay lovely,  stay Loving! 
Love yourself even more. 
Do something nice to a random woman today. 
Say something nice to a woman today. 
It’s our day yo! 
Toodles πŸ’ƒ πŸ‘‘ 


There are two powers in the world; one is the sword and the other is the pen. There is a great competition and rivalry between the two. There is a third power stronger than both, that of the women. 

_ Muhammad Ali Jinnah

It’s Aquarius Season!!!Β 

Like you didn’t know already lol. 
Hello people, 

So it’s not news that this is my favorite time of the year,  and incase you didn’t know that already, then forgive me for not being loud enough,…  now you know.πŸ˜†

It’s officially my Birthday season.. February 8th Yo!

Amazingly, this season comes with mixed feelings,  it’s my ideal happy/sad time (more of happy though) , I tend to take stock of my life,  draw plans,  laugh at my mistakes,  take a step back,  get upset about plans that haven’t been executed, so it’s kinda sober……
…until a day to my birthday,  then I become superpumped, happy, adrenaline filled and unrepentant about cake. πŸ˜‚(I’m a cake junkie) 
I just love birthdays.
So yes, birthdays come with a lot of thoughtful gifts and priceless messages from loved ones, Another tradition at these times is the personal gift. A friend taught me a long time ago, and since then, it has become my thing.

I buy myself a very little fancy gift, I wrap it for myself and open it on that day. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚, yes,  I do things like that.  I call it a mini splurge, something I like but have been overthinking to buy.
I’m still torn between what I want to get for myself this year, but whatever it is, I’m sure I’m gonna love it, afterall, Who knows what I like more than me? lol
Anyways, this is just a “subtle” reminder that I’m in my season, so I can get away with anything πŸ˜‚


Bhotchocolate ❀
Saw this in my draft… Wrote this and thought I posted it… Clumsy much?

So please do me a favour and read this post again… Bearing in mind you are reading it on the 24th January πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜ˆπŸ˜ˆπŸ˜ˆ

Birthdays are good for me. Statistics show that the more I have the longer I live.


Dear Diary,

The beauty of being an optimist is that one cannot be less lively with thoughts and decisions.

Let me live through this and I’ll be extremely thankful.

This is me thinking out loud.

Hope you all had an amazing weekend. 

I had an interesting one,  a very interesting one. 
Well, enjoy the new week.



Smile in the mirror. Do that every morning and you’ll start to see a big difference in your life”. Yoko Ono


Happy New Year!

Welcome to the new-year!
A year of newness,  new beginnings, fresh starts. 
Hoping and praying that your 2018 outshines your 2017 in all things positive. 
Have an Amazing year ahead. 

Bhotchocolate ❀

Every day is a new beginning. Treat it that way. Stay away from what might have been, and look at what can be.     

Marsha Petrie Sue


Note to self

I’m giggling writing this cos the best emoji to start this post with is this🀦🀦🀦🀦
I got sooooo close to finishing my 31 days challenge… But hey, life happens. 

And life happened on this end… But I’m okay,  thanks

Note to self “Never start any of these challenges” 

I’m really not cut out for that.
So I got a chat up a while back from someone about not finishing my challenge, I was so embarrassed. Cos I could have sworn that no-one follows these things. 

No pressures,  because this is a personal blog. 

I think I’ll just take it easy (as always) , document what I can and stay smiling.
It’s just been a Superfun yuletide season,  I’m home with family,  chilling,  getting funny stories from my cousins, being petty with my little nephew…doesn’t get any better. πŸ˜„
This is me just checking in!
Catch up again as soon as possible,  and I’m sure my posts will be a lot more frequent this time

Bhotchocolate ❀

I work very hard, and I play very hard. I’m grateful for life. And I live it – I believe life loves the lover of it. I live it.
– Maya Angelou


21. Whats my style?

Hey hotties!!!

Day 21… Yippie!!!!!!!!

My style is Comfort…. Whatever feels comfortable…im in.. *dont want to break my ankle wearing unnecessary high heels* πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚